Those family portraits with the perfect hair and matchy-matchy outfits? We know it took 100 takes to get the one you posted on Facebook that you casually referred to as a "snapshot." Because otherwise it would look like, say, this one:
Like with one kid pouting because we didn't let her hold the baby, one kid acting absolutely insane because she's so tired but past the point of getting a nap sporting hair that's doing who-knows-what, one cranky toddler who sat still for 10 solid seconds but protested loudly the whole time, one baby who desperately wants her mama, and two big kids who basically rock (at least in this particular shot).
I think that's why this is one of my favorites of late. Because this is real life. Personalities galore. No filter. Unedited. Authentic. My herd.
Maybe it's weird to pick a word on October 14th, but I'm doing it. My word for the limited remainder of 2016 is Authentic.
I can feel the burden of expectations lifting right off my shoulders. I'm free to be me. We're free to be us. It's a lesson I want my very unique children to learn much sooner than their slow mother.
Authenticity is a collection of choices that we have to make every day. It's about the choice to show up and be real. The choice to be honest. The choice to let our true selves be seen. ~Brene Brown